arrhh party woes

party woes....
like its so stressing organising a party...
its like, so many people u know
i realised like u wanna invite one u seem to have to invite the other. its like thats a problem with non-exclusive parties... like people all want their friends to be included.
anyway. 1. i invited the core group ! well they jknow they're invited i don't have to invite them actually! ( core group meaning those of us that discussed and so wanted the party!)
2. i invited the friends of this core group, closer friends of theirs.
3. i invited friends that i know that are closer to me or some friends of theirs that i think could get to know people in our church better
4. i invited their classes...
5. they're open to invite friends that they wanna invite as well. shall tell them that.
so basically its those people that wanted this party for them and their friends and thats what we did!
ya yet like it's become the biggest discussion topic outside the social circle.. esp among a certain group. and i'm wondering! is it so hard to throw a party these days
i'm sure gonna offend tonnes of people if they actually come across this blog.
so anyway i purposely didn't invite certain groups of people, i only invite people that are kinda linked to the above. so for example, i didn't invite some people cos they didn't fall into these certain groups of people. and i tried to stay away from people that are close to them as well. with a few exceptions that really can't be helped.
so YA like SIGH u know.
like i mean like ya why they discussing so much among themselves about it, like they could just have gotton to know me, and been my friend then they would have easily been invited cos i'll just invite them straight off, without thinking like whether to invite them or not now. so confusing, even my writing is confusing me, think my grammar is all mixed up. sigh u know, like i don't want this party to be exclusive but i don't have money to feed an entire army.... like ya... or like the time to organise it, like hope peolpe volunteer some help.... haha oh well.. its a party thrown for us by us.. kinda thing, so hoping everyone helps out too! its not my party, i just provided the invitations and the venue!
like ya u can invite who u want! really open to friends coming, this is not an exclusive invitation only party.. haha invitations are just for like funn, to make it formal, extravagant! people misunderstand...
well if u know anyone that wants to be invited!! pls sound me out! yup and not just for e sake of being popular and being in e happening crowd!
like those tt really wanna come u know, and not like "why am i not invited?" cos if they know me well enough... i'm not a distant kinda person, i'm not unfriendly, i don't try to make people feel left out, in fact i want everyone to feel in, but like....
"as long as u don't come and make others feel left out"
social things are so complicated. u know makes me a little angry. frustrated, whatever.....
like i just hope that people that invite their friends like not for the sake of like so they can make it their party u know, like so all their friends are included. sigh so confusing... well. like its so hard to say but like i guess they can throw another party!!!i'll gladly help them out...
i really don'[t know, my friend always has this policy "would they do the same for me too?" and u wonder... erally wonder, like "where is the love?" like ya thats what God and all is about, love. and we should show love to everyone regardless of what he does to u and all.. like love ur enemy... loev ur neighbour etc.
hope i didn't offend anyone...
comments PEOPLE...
me don't understand... why can't people be more simple minded. why can't they be moreopen, moer loving, less gossipy, less etc. etc. etc...
u know, u just wish....
but i restate ... its a " non - exclusive "
christmas partY!!!