grumbling?

Why is it that when i throw up ideas... and like i try to tell people and tell them about problems i think are apparent..... they think i'm grumbling?
when really i'm not. i've less reason to be unhappy than so many others.
or like... i mean i feel... i don't have any little bit of anger abt it. 'and giving a very neutral perspective on it.
i see so many things, i listen to people, i think, i look at things from all different angles.
yet my honest opinion doens't seem to hold any weight
thinking about it...
thinking about it....
praying about it...
praying about it...
what to do next?