i find myself talking so much about relationships to everyone i meet in the near past, in the near present, and in the near future...
are we at the age where it has become so important to us?
I guess, it is a good time.. When else would you have so much time just to get to know that person well, where you'll have so many opportunities just to meet up and talk, or see each other around... we're at an age where family life becomes more important to us, and there is a shift of focus, away from studies, away from friends, into the future, into the next phase of your life.
Just today, i told someone "its not about how good/great the guy/girl is, but how happy you are together, that is what makes things successful"
I guess that came up, as we were talking about our church friends and peers. How some people are just so popular in church... although its usually more often than not, a superficial thing. how the best looking guys/girls are the ones that everyone always likes. and the rest just fall into anonymity... such an elistist society.. it surprises me..
i guess hearing that they're not together anymore really just hurts my view of him. that ultimately, all that we strive for to be as christian just falls back into what we all see on the surface. okay, so u became more gd looking as u grew up. okay so u have all the girls at your feet now. okay... so what? u just picked the better girl as she came along? how disappointing. i hope u do find out what u really want =), we don't need to hurt people along the path of discovery.
such strong feelings. i need assurance that perhaps my dream might come true. is it possible that u and everyone else might think others better urself? that u're not too good for anyone else, rather that everyone else is better than you? Only then will i truly respect u for who u are. humility is something that can't be taught, only learnt. we all have to fall and pick ourselves up again to realise what monsters we once were.
Elitism is a belief or attitude that elites, a selected group of persons whose personal abilities, wealth, specialised training or other attributes place them at the top of any field, conveying a less rational and more purely arrogant sense of entitlement to better treatment owing to wealth, social standing, etc.
Love.. we almost remember the love we have for one another, not the anger, not the hate, not the jealousy... we love each other for who they are, children of God.
are we at the age where it has become so important to us?
I guess, it is a good time.. When else would you have so much time just to get to know that person well, where you'll have so many opportunities just to meet up and talk, or see each other around... we're at an age where family life becomes more important to us, and there is a shift of focus, away from studies, away from friends, into the future, into the next phase of your life.
Just today, i told someone "its not about how good/great the guy/girl is, but how happy you are together, that is what makes things successful"
I guess that came up, as we were talking about our church friends and peers. How some people are just so popular in church... although its usually more often than not, a superficial thing. how the best looking guys/girls are the ones that everyone always likes. and the rest just fall into anonymity... such an elistist society.. it surprises me..
i guess hearing that they're not together anymore really just hurts my view of him. that ultimately, all that we strive for to be as christian just falls back into what we all see on the surface. okay, so u became more gd looking as u grew up. okay so u have all the girls at your feet now. okay... so what? u just picked the better girl as she came along? how disappointing. i hope u do find out what u really want =), we don't need to hurt people along the path of discovery.
such strong feelings. i need assurance that perhaps my dream might come true. is it possible that u and everyone else might think others better urself? that u're not too good for anyone else, rather that everyone else is better than you? Only then will i truly respect u for who u are. humility is something that can't be taught, only learnt. we all have to fall and pick ourselves up again to realise what monsters we once were.
Elitism is a belief or attitude that elites, a selected group of persons whose personal abilities, wealth, specialised training or other attributes place them at the top of any field, conveying a less rational and more purely arrogant sense of entitlement to better treatment owing to wealth, social standing, etc.
Love.. we almost remember the love we have for one another, not the anger, not the hate, not the jealousy... we love each other for who they are, children of God.
posted by Matthias | 6:59 AM
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